How To Talk To Your Loved Ones About Your Final Wishes

By: Tom Gallagher
Tuesday, July 31, 2018

It is difficult to talk about death with your loved ones because it is an extremely sensitive topic. It can be very uncomfrtable for many, and it can cause grief and pain to your family and friends, which is why many ignore to discuss this altogether. Here are a few tips to help you make this conversation easier for everyone:

It Is Your Decision: 

It is advisable to include your family into the planning process or let them know your final wishes. However, there is no need to force yourself into having that conversation until you feel ready. You can take your time in coming up with a way to explain this to them. Some people wouldn’t take family opinions into consideration to relieve them from the pain during this difficult process. You can call a funeral home yourself and explain the planning process to them.

Arrange A Meeting:

Arranging a meeting with all individuals and tell them at once is a better idea. They can comfort one another and can also remain rational. It is a good idea to choose a place that has a soothing atmosphere. This will help ease the tense conversation.

Prepare Yourself For Some Conflict:

During such deep and tense conversation, emotions are high and most people aren’t rational. This might cause problems with communicating with one another. It is important to be calm, patient and firm during such times. Some family members provide you with helpful suggestions while others do not. However, it is important to keep your preferences in mind while also listening to what they recommend.

At Nutmeg State Cremation Society, we provide excellent tips on how to talk to your loved ones about your final wishes and can help you with all aspects of the process so if you have questions, don’t hesitate to contact us.

Leave a comment
Name*:
Email:
Comment*:
Please enter the numbers and letters you see in the image. Note that the case of the letters entered matters.

Comments

Please wait

Previous Posts

Modern Ways to Memorialize a Loved One

When a family is dealing with the demise of a loved one, it can be extremely challenging for them to come to terms with their loss. However, every family member wants to make sure that they bid the...

Our Favorite Ideas for Creating a Unique Service

When people are organizing funerals, they generally follow certain traditions that could be based on their cultural or religious leanings. Regardless of how you plan the funeral, you want it to be ...

Is a Casket Required for Cremation?

There was a time when people wouldn't look beyond a traditional burial after a person passed away. However, many are not opting for cremation. However, family members are sometimes unsure about exa...

5 Things To Think About Before Organizing A Funeral

When a family member passes away, someone has to take the responsibility of handling all the funeral arrangements. If you are in charge of this task and are not very sure of how to go about the pro...

Social Media Meets Funeral Service. The Pro's And Con's

Social media has become an integral aspect of our lives. While we use it to communicate with people regularly, it also has a key role to play while planning a funeral service. Here we take a look a...

What Is Actually Involved In Preplanning Your Funeral?

Today, the concept of pre-planning a funeral has become quite popular, and many people prepay for funerals according to their preferences. If you are interested in knowing more about this and want ...

Coping with an Unexpected Death

It isn't easy for family members and close friends to deal with the unexpected death of a loved one. The disbelief quickly transforms into feelings such as frustration, remorse, and regret. However...

Dealing with Unresolved Grief

People that have just experienced the death of a loved one, often find it difficult to cope with the loss. Many prefer joy over sadness or life over death. This is why people find it challenging to...

Cremation Vs. Burial Costs

Many people want to know how cremations compare against burials and what the pricing structure of these two services is. It's important to understand that there can be a variation in pricing depend...

Ideas for Memorializing Your Loved One After The Service

When a loved one passes, you need an outlet for your grief. This is typically when you start looking for ways and means of keeping that person’s memory alive. Some families keep photographs or pain...